Happy marriage is about understanding your partner, being supportive and nice with him. Long lasting happy marriage have great communication. It is based on is deep friendship, knowing each other well, having mutual respect about each other. There is commitment to staying together.If you don’t voice your problems they have nowhere to go. Worse if you voice them to people not in your marriage – i.e. friends, coworkers, anyone else – then instead of airing your dirty laundry you let it fester.Making decisions together is also a key to achieving happiness in marriage for three reasons. First, this practise enables the couple to work in collaboration to reach a decision. Second, both get equally involved in the decision making. Third, if only one person makes a decision that ultimately turns out to be a bad one, it could lead to resentment.Give each other a lot of space to ensure a happy married life. Spending a lot of time with each other can be suffocated. So, it is as important to be apart as it is to be together and communicate matters pertaining to your interests. The time that you spend apart from each other not only protects the marriage but also enables each partner to retain his or her individuality.Spend more time with your spouse. Before speaking, clarify the outcome you want.
Be a good listener. Understand your spouse from his or her point of view. Be willing to compromise.
Look for positive activities you can do together.