Lovely Love, Dating Ideas and Tips » love http://lovillscreek.com Great Dating Tips and Ideas Fri, 23 Jul 2010 18:06:21 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 en hourly 1 How to find your ideal mate http://lovillscreek.com/how-to-find-your-ideal-mate/ http://lovillscreek.com/how-to-find-your-ideal-mate/#comments Sun, 27 Jun 2010 16:21:43 +0000 upendra singh rathore http://lovillscreek.com/?p=128 The problem comes when we find ourselves in a relationship and we are constantly comparing our partners with this conjured-up ‘perfect’ person. When that happens, we stop appreciating our partner for all the beautiful qualities they do possess.The truth is this perfect person does not exist. More importantly, we may not actually need all of these qualities in a partner to be extraordinarily happy.Now describe what they are like: their personality, their appearance, what they do, what they like and don’t like, and so on. Put the list away for a while. Come back to the list and imagine what it would be like living with this person for 20+ years. Ask yourself questions such as the following:
Will their good looks fade? The better question is “when” not “if.”

Would that personality trait you liked such as a strong, dominant become overbearing?

How long would it be before that “free spirit” you enjoy now appear to be irresponsible?

What will you do when you change and grow? What will happen to the relationship?

Are your principles and values being satisfied with this person in the long term?

Why would my relationship with someone like this last for a lifetime?

Now rewrite your list of characteristics and create a new description.

]]> http://lovillscreek.com/how-to-find-your-ideal-mate/feed/ 0 Intimate relationship http://lovillscreek.com/intimate-relationship-enduring-behavioral-interdependence-repeated-interactions-emotional-attachment/ http://lovillscreek.com/intimate-relationship-enduring-behavioral-interdependence-repeated-interactions-emotional-attachment/#comments Sat, 12 Jun 2010 06:22:09 +0000 upendra singh rathore http://lovillscreek.com/?p=123 True Love has several aspects: mutual respect, acceptance, caring, being determined to know your partner more fully, self-sacrifice, and the desire to improve yourself within the relationship. Let’s consider the details of each.There are two types of love in a relationship; passionate love and companionate love. With companionate love, potent feelings diminish but are enriched by warm feelings of attachment, an authentic and enduring bond, a sense of mutual commitment, the profound knowledge that you are caring for another person who is in turn caring for you, feeling proud of a mate’s accomplishment, and the satisfaction that comes from sharing goals and perspective.An intimate relationship is a particularly close interpersonal relationship. It can be defined by these characteristics: enduring behavioral interdependence, repeated interactions, emotional attachment, and need fulfillment.Intimate relationships play a central role in the overall human experience.In human relationships, the meaning and level of intimacy varies within and between relationships. In anthropological research, intimacy is considered the product of a successful seduction, a process of rapport building that enables parties to confidently disclose previously hidden thoughts and feelings.During infancy, childhood, adolescence, and young adulthood, new needs and tensions arise in the individual. In attempt to seek ways of adapting to these newfound stresses, people develop different kinds of intimate relationships that ultimately form their personality.From the time of birth, every individual is biologically predisposed to approach the world with his or her own personal style. Studies of infants suggest that some variability in human behavior may result directly or indirectly from genetic differences.

]]> http://lovillscreek.com/intimate-relationship-enduring-behavioral-interdependence-repeated-interactions-emotional-attachment/feed/ 0 How To Know If a Girl Likes You http://lovillscreek.com/how-to-know-if-a-girl-likes-you/ http://lovillscreek.com/how-to-know-if-a-girl-likes-you/#comments Sat, 24 Apr 2010 05:06:18 +0000 upendra singh rathore http://lovillscreek.com/how-to-know-if-a-girl-likes-you/ Women often seem like a big mystery. It is difficult for a guy to know if a girl likes you or if she is just playing games.If you are totally infatuated with a girl but are not sure if she too likes you then do not lose your confidence.Here are some suggestions which will let you know how to know if a girl likes you.
She does her cat scan over you. You might notice that she looks at you at regular intervals and scans you from top to bottom to top again. So, dress well and do not slouch.She smiles at you. If she likes what she scans then chances are that she will give you a shy smile or even a bold one if she too is besotted by you. If she is shy, she might look away when you look at her but if she is bold then she might just mouth out a “meow”. She finds an excuse to talk to you. She might catch hold of a friend and ask to be introduced to you. Once introduced, she will certainly try to keep the conversation going while trying to gather more information about you.She is genuinely concerned about your health and even snaps at you for not eating right or eating on time.She enjoys chatting with you for hours together and discusses her experiences and her dreams.Instead of passing flattering complements, she’ll be honest with you and tell you what she likes as well as dislikes about you.She doesn’t hesitate to share her long terms dreams and aspirations with you. When she talks about her future, she mentions you in it.

]]> http://lovillscreek.com/how-to-know-if-a-girl-likes-you/feed/ 1 How to Write the Perfect Love Letter http://lovillscreek.com/how-to-write-the-perfect-love-letter/ http://lovillscreek.com/how-to-write-the-perfect-love-letter/#comments Fri, 05 Mar 2010 05:28:24 +0000 upendra singh rathore http://lovillscreek.com/?p=83 The most ideal gift to give your beloved is a handwritten love letter. Use beautiful stationery (a neutral, soft color, such as cream or white) and a flair pen with black or brown ink—no blues, greens or reds! Remember, your Love Letter is being written to someone special. Hand-written letters are best. This is personal–you are not writing a business letter!
Intimacy is the keyword in writing a love letter. Make sure that it is personal and does not look like a scoop for a news article! It should be handwritten and not printed or typed.
The words should come from your heart. The words should sound not only genuine and warm, but also express your true feeling.Mention the date when you write the love letter. Love letter will be treasured and remembered forever and hence specify the date.Choose a lovable salutation and use your love’s first name for the salutation.Do not be either formal or too casual. Maintain balance in your words and tone.
Avoid being casual, too light-hearted, or openly erotic. A Love Letter is a letter of respect that coveys deep, difficult-to-express feelings. Don’t discount the impact of poetry in place of, or in addition to, your words

The most ideal gift to give your beloved is a handwritten love letter. Use beautiful stationery (a neutral, soft color, such as cream or white) and a flair pen with black or brown ink—no blues, greens or reds! Remember, your Love Letter is being written to someone special. Hand-written letters are best. This is personal–you are not writing a business letter!

Intimacy is the keyword in writing a love letter. Make sure that it is personal and does not look like a scoop for a news article! It should be handwritten and not printed or typed.The words should come from your heart. The words should sound not only genuine and warm, but also express your true feeling.Mention the date when you write the love letter. Love letter will be treasured and remembered forever and hence specify the date.Choose a lovable salutation and use your love’s first name for the salutation.Do not be either formal or too casual. Maintain balance in your words and tone.

Avoid being casual, too light-hearted, or openly erotic. A Love Letter is a letter of respect that coveys deep, difficult-to-express feelings. Don’t discount the impact of poetry in place of, or in addition to, your words

]]> http://lovillscreek.com/how-to-write-the-perfect-love-letter/feed/ 0 obligatory friendship http://lovillscreek.com/obligatory-friendship/ http://lovillscreek.com/obligatory-friendship/#comments Tue, 02 Mar 2010 11:08:27 +0000 upendra singh rathore http://lovillscreek.com/?p=81 A love-hate relationship is a personal relationship involving simultaneous or alternating emotions of love and enmity. This relationship does not have to be of a romantic nature, and may be instead of a sibling one. It may occur when people have completely lost the intimacy within a loving relationship, yet still retain some passion for, or perhaps some commitment to, each other.
The term is used most frequently in psychology, popular writing and journalism. It can be applied to relationships with inanimate objects, or even concepts. It is sometimes employed by writers to refer to relationships between celebrity couples who have been divorced, then who reunite (notably Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton or Eminem and Kimberly “Kim” Scott).
A related theme is “obligatory friendship”, where usually one party feels indebted to another and forges a friendship but still holds a grudge over a particular past disappointment or set of disappointments, while the “creditor” in the relationship agrees to the nature of the relationship often for security reasons, but remains aware of the “debtor’s” grudge and feels counter-indebted until the cause of the grudge is sufficiently overcome.

A love-hate relationship is a personal relationship involving simultaneous or alternating emotions of love and enmity. This relationship does not have to be of a romantic nature, and may be instead of a sibling one. It may occur when people have completely lost the intimacy within a loving relationship, yet still retain some passion for, or perhaps some commitment to, each other.The term is used most frequently in psychology, popular writing and journalism. It can be applied to relationships with inanimate objects, or even concepts. It is sometimes employed by writers to refer to relationships between celebrity couples who have been divorced, then who reunite (notably Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton or Eminem and Kimberly “Kim” Scott).A related theme is “obligatory friendship”, where usually one party feels indebted to another and forges a friendship but still holds a grudge over a particular past disappointment or set of disappointments, while the “creditor” in the relationship agrees to the nature of the relationship often for security reasons, but remains aware of the “debtor’s” grudge and feels counter-indebted until the cause of the grudge is sufficiently overcome.

]]> http://lovillscreek.com/obligatory-friendship/feed/ 0 Valentine day tips http://lovillscreek.com/valentine-day-tips/ http://lovillscreek.com/valentine-day-tips/#comments Sat, 13 Feb 2010 14:29:49 +0000 admin http://lovillscreek.com/?p=77 Love is in the air as young hearts wait eagerly with cards and candies to say it to their beloved on the day none other than the Valentine’s Day.
Celebrated on 14th February every year, Valentine’s Day is all about sharing your love with your near and dear one.
Although this festival of love is meant for every age group, with changing times youth started cherishing this day to express their feelings to some one close to their heart along with flowers, gifts and chocolates.
here are creative ways to express your love:-
Create your own Valentine’s Day card. Compose a poem or an expression of love that expresses your personality.
Jewelry is always a favorite. For the woman in your life, buy a heart-shaped locket and put a picture of yourself in it. Personalize the locket with your loved one’s initials so she’ll have something to wear that’s hers alone. Package it in a heart-shaped box or tied to fresh flowers. For your man, a good choice is the classic sterling silver ID bracelet or cuff links with his name or initials custom-engraved.
Plan a special dinner for him/her either in a garden or a boat. A candle light dinner is just unforgettable.
Pamper your sweetheart by gifting her a spa session.
Pot a plant that will grow and loom for her.
Spend loads of quality time with him/her and clandestine visits to romantic gateways.
Gift him/her a nice cell phone for keeping endless communication.
Gift her a beautiful evening gown or apparel.
Dance with your valentine on Martina McBride’s ‘Valentine’.
Include a chocolate dessert in your romantic dinner.
Create a love song CD full of Valentine’s Day songs.
Send flowers at workplace or home to him/her.
If he/she loves gadgets then gift a digital camera.

]]> http://lovillscreek.com/valentine-day-tips/feed/ 0 Love For You http://lovillscreek.com/love-for-you/ http://lovillscreek.com/love-for-you/#comments Mon, 01 Feb 2010 15:35:52 +0000 upendra singh rathore http://lovillscreek.com/?p=73 Love is one of the most sacred feeling of the world and is an important part of our life. Without love life becomes meaningless and man is left with no one but himself alone in the world. Our life has began with love and it survives due to love. Love is the truest of all feeling and lovers feel themselves to be blessed for having such a divine emotion. People over the ages have tried to define love in their best way. Even in religious leaders have tried to define love. Bible defines love as,

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.”.

]]> http://lovillscreek.com/love-for-you/feed/ 0 Win Her Heart in Five Easy Steps http://lovillscreek.com/win-her-heart-in-five-easy-steps/ http://lovillscreek.com/win-her-heart-in-five-easy-steps/#comments Sat, 16 Jan 2010 08:46:54 +0000 upendra singh rathore http://lovillscreek.com/?p=57 I tell you love tips for how to win her heart in five easy steps.
The first love tips are about showing your romantic side. Now, my boyfriend cringes at the idea of the movie ‘The Notebook’ or a movie like ‘A Walk to Remember’, but men, if you want a good relationship women need you to watch these movies. They have great love tips. In a relationship love tips make you aware that women may not be looking for a man in touch with his feminine side, either. You need to find out what the particular girl you fancy likes. If you try to second guess her in a relationship women tend not to like that.The next key love tips to win a woman’s heart is just by listening to her. Every woman wants a knight in shining armor to come rescue her at times. When they know they can rely on a man in a relationship women feel secure and happy. If we find a gentleman in our relationship women hang on to him. These love tips will help you be the gentleman girls will really want.Steps four and five of these love tips sort of go hand in hand. The first is to get a good relationship we women want you to just love us for us. Try to find who we really are, but the problem with knowing who we really are that we forget how to live life at times.

I tell you love tips for how to win her heart in five easy steps.

The first love tips are about showing your romantic side. Now, my boyfriend cringes at the idea of the movie ‘The Notebook’ or a movie like ‘A Walk to Remember’, but men, if you want a good relationship women need you to watch these movies. They have great love tips. In a relationship love tips make you aware that women may not be looking for a man in touch with his feminine side, either. You need to find out what the particular girl you fancy likes. If you try to second guess her in a relationship women tend not to like that.The next key love tips to win a woman’s heart is just by listening to her. Every woman wants a knight in shining armor to come rescue her at times. When they know they can rely on a man in a relationship women feel secure and happy. If we find a gentleman in our relationship women hang on to him. These love tips will help you be the gentleman girls will really want.Steps four and five of these love tips sort of go hand in hand. The first is to get a good relationship we women want you to just love us for us. Try to find who we really are, but the problem with knowing who we really are that we forget how to live life at times.

]]> http://lovillscreek.com/win-her-heart-in-five-easy-steps/feed/ 0 Anniversary Trip Ideas http://lovillscreek.com/anniversary-trip-ideas/ http://lovillscreek.com/anniversary-trip-ideas/#comments Tue, 12 Jan 2010 14:44:11 +0000 upendra singh rathore http://lovillscreek.com/?p=55 One of the best ways to celebrate a wedding anniversary is by taking a trip together. A romantic trip at anniversary time gives you time to reconnect, reflect, and rekindle the passion that drew you together in the first place.

While not everyone can afford a trip to commemorate each anniversary, by putting aside some money every year you can plan to celebrate the major ones with a trip. I know one couple who deposited $5 in a jar every time they made love, and that covered their annual trip.
The 5th, 10th, 15th, 20th, and 25th anniversary all mark major milestones in a marriage that deserve to be honored. While an anniversary trip isn’t the traditional anniversary gift, it can be the best one you give yourselves.

While not everyone can afford a trip to commemorate each anniversary, by putting aside some money every year you can plan to celebrate the major ones with a trip. I know one couple who deposited $5 in a jar every time they made love, and that covered their annual trip.

The 5th, 10th, 15th, 20th, and 25th anniversary all mark major milestones in a marriage that deserve to be honored. While an anniversary trip isn’t the traditional anniversary gift, it can be the best one you give yourselves.

]]> http://lovillscreek.com/anniversary-trip-ideas/feed/ 0 What does Love mean to Romance? http://lovillscreek.com/what-does-love-mean-to-romance/ http://lovillscreek.com/what-does-love-mean-to-romance/#comments Wed, 06 Jan 2010 09:21:02 +0000 upendra singh rathore http://lovillscreek.com/?p=52 To me love is a feeling felt by two people, it builds into a commitment when you feel your self respecting what another stands for.
Love makes a day worth living, if it can be shared 100% with your partner. Love it feeling as if a part of you is missing when your partner is gone. It is a yearning to do the same things, to be the one that inspires another’s dreams. It is the want and need to feel accepted for who you are, the weaknesses made stronger by the other and the strengths give to the other in return. It is the sharing of an idea, and running with it to enhance it as only the two of you can do. Loving someone is doing every thing for them and expecting nothing in return, it is giving and unexpectedly receiving back two fold. It is doing without for yourself only to give to your loved one. Love is a smile into their heart, a touch that will awaken another’s passion. It is a spiritual bonding between two people that nothing can tear apart. Loved is sharing the spiritual beliefs, and making your faith in each other stronger day by day. Love is going thru trying times together relying on each others strength, and it builds a stronger relationship as you experience the good with the some times difficult times. True love builds a strong foundation, by nurturing each other to bring out their best and not just thinking about today but looking toward growing old together.

To me love is a feeling felt by two people, it builds into a commitment when you feel your self respecting what another stands for.

Love makes a day worth living, if it can be shared 100% with your partner. Love it feeling as if a part of you is missing when your partner is gone. It is a yearning to do the same things, to be the one that inspires another’s dreams. It is the want and need to feel accepted for who you are, the weaknesses made stronger by the other and the strengths give to the other in return. It is the sharing of an idea, and running with it to enhance it as only the two of you can do. Loving someone is doing every thing for them and expecting nothing in return, it is giving and unexpectedly receiving back two fold. It is doing without for yourself only to give to your loved one. Love is a smile into their heart, a touch that will awaken another’s passion. It is a spiritual bonding between two people that nothing can tear apart. Loved is sharing the spiritual beliefs, and making your faith in each other stronger day by day. Love is going thru trying times together relying on each others strength, and it builds a stronger relationship as you experience the good with the some times difficult times. True love builds a strong foundation, by nurturing each other to bring out their best and not just thinking about today but looking toward growing old together.

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